Description
Invest in your conscious parenting personal growth with:
- Foresight: Even before your child can talk, you can learn about the purpose of connection between you two
- Insight: When you child is the age of being able to talk, you can learn a deeper layer of what the purpose of connection is between you two
- Hindsight: Even if your child has passed or they have moved away, and you haven’t got to know them in a deeper way that you are wanting, you have the opportunity to do so with this service
Benefits
- Learn what the purpose of a connection is before your child starts talking
- Learn why your child is the way they are
- Learn about the depth structures of what your unique connection with your child is actually about beyond just what you think or assume it is about
- Become aware of how to consciously engage with your child by having more awareness of what the purpose of the connection is
Overall Index Rating
With this service you learn about the major planetary influences that contribute to the purpose of your unique connection between you and your child.
In the image above you can see that all five major planetary influences contribute to an overall index rating.
The over all index rating has sub-categories:
- Bonding Motive (how drawn you are to interacting with them)
- Intensity
- Harmony
Planetary Influences
There are unique aspects of planetary influence between you and your child.
The planetary influence contributes to the way you:
- Perceive one another
- Think about one another
- Interact with one another
- How you behave around one another
- What determines the depth, degree, and duration of challenge or harmony with the other
Functional or Dysfunctional Expressions
There are more functional expressions of each planetary aspect to one another, and there are more dysfunctional expressions of each planetary aspect.
What determines function or dysfunction is based on you and your child’s levels of development.
Moon
Functional Moon planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- As soon as you first started interacting with them, you intuitively sensed that you most likely had been together in some way in a prior lifetime
- You both have a balanced masculine and feminine connection
- There is a perception of closeness
- If your child talks, there is excellent communication  and an openness to talk about almost anything
Dysfunctional Moon planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- You and them are so close that sometimes (if you have had a sister or brother growing up) it can seem like fighting with a brother or sister
- Not much challenge and might be more easy than one prefers
Venus
Functional Venus planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- There is much in common with your child or kid, and it’s a pleasurable feeling creating quality time with one another
- There is effortless Outrageous Love between you two and so much care and concern
- They can seem to be aware of exactly what you like, love, or prefer
- There are similar interests and preferences with art, home aesthetics, food, music, and other important things that are meaningful to you
- Strong foundation that can develop to having a higher visionÂ
Dysfunctional Venus planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- There is no low side to a Venus planetary influence between you two
- Depending on the level of development you both people are at, the only dysfunctional expression would be staying in a distant or surface level connection
Mars
Functional Mars planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Influence that excites and contributes movement
- Energy to do a lot of things together like physical games, going on walks or bike rides, and other fun physical activities
- Energy for exercise or physical movement
- If your kid is older, there is an ability to work together in the same business and experience success (however you are choosing to both define that)
- This Mars aspect allows you two to get more accomplishedÂ
Dysfunctional Venus planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Power struggles: pointless arguments of “who is right and who is wrong”
- Irritation
- Annoyance
- Not taking response-ability for one’s own emotional wake and attempting to blame one another
- Poor communication skills (not discerning between demands and requests)
- Telling one’s self a story about “rejection”, “abandonment”, “things being unfair”, or things like “they are trying to deliberately hurt me in any way they can”
- Unconscious compitition (trying to one-up the other to be in a power-over forcing behavor)
- Telling one’s self a story “I am the better person (because I am the adult, etc.) in this relationship or connection”
Jupiter
Functional Jupiter planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Contributing being able to receive more fully
- Gifts the perception that the Universe is full of things to be grateful and happy about
- Being able to share in the infinate abundance of the Universe
- Sharing abundance with one another unconditionally
Dysfunctional Jupiter planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Conditional giving (“Do this or that and I’ll give you this”)
- Keeping neurotic track of what is given and how much is received
- “Doing favors” thinking and language
- No challenge and can be uneventful and perhaps boring
Saturn
Functional Saturn planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Learning how to receive suggestions to improve one’s life in what they want or prefer
- Sharing information to improve things between you two
- Mature and grounded qualityÂ
- Gifts various kinds of improvementsÂ
Dysfunctional Uranus planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Mis-percetpion of
- Rejection
- Criticisim
- Evaluation
- Diagnosis
- Judgement
- Being put down
- Not mattering
- Life can be mis-perceived as being “hard together” and thoughts of “I can never seem to do or say anything ‘right’ “
- Lost or caught into “who’s right and who is wrong” thinking
- Lost or caught in unconscious power struggles (power-over vs. power-under)
- Telling one’s self a story, “all we seem to do is fight and split hairs, and it always seems to be my ‘fault'”
- Self-sabotage by subscribing to thinking of “right” and “fair” and not seeing that there is only learn
- Telling one’s self a story or mis-peception thoughts of the relationship or connection “being like I am in boot camp” or there seems to be just work and more work and only work work work
- Mis-perception or thoughts of “It’s like I am being dominated by some kid slave driver who doesn’t care about what I think or feel”
- If both people are still oriented with a Separate or False Self at a lower stage of development, it can manifest as abuse, both verbally and otherwise, where unloving things manifest
- Thinking in terms of who or what is “deserving” and who or what is not
Uranus
Functional Uranus planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Consciously choosing mutual respect and appreciation for one another’s Unique Perspective, Unique Self, Unique Gifts, and Unique Pace in life – in life with what one another prefers
- Realizing there is only Unique Pace and freedom of choice with everyone, and choose to accept one another do the things one another prefers without expectations or unrealistic attachments
Dysfunctional Saturn planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- One partner trying to control or manipulate the other unsuccessfully
- Uncertain about the affections for one another
- Need or preference for predictability chronically unmet
- Not much in common, no similar experiences or point of view
- Rebelliousness and avoidance tactics by one or both in the relationship or connection
- Perception of “struggling to hang on to them”
- Unwillingness to face one’s fears of abandonment
- Mis-perceptions of
- F.O.M.O. (fear of missing out)
- Rejection
- Can have aspects of anxious attachment style
Neptune
Functional Neptune planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Inspiration to expand life perception and experience on many levels
- Capacity to develop and experience being psychically attuned in the relationship or connection
- Depending on ones level of self evolution and cleaning up (or shadow work), being able to read one another’s thoughts and feelings at a deeper level
- Deep sense of gratitude for their contributions to help bloom life more wonderful
- If there was any such thing as a “perfect” Unique Connection this would be close to it
Dysfunctional Neptune planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Assumptions
- Exaggerations
- Expectations
- Rose-colored-glasses to the point of self-sabotage and harm to one’s self or the other
- Limerance
- Fantasy (no functional imagination)
- Being hopelessly addicted to uncommunicated ideals with them (in your head about how things should or shouldn’t be without verbally communicating them
- Magical thinking (expecting the other person to always read your mind) “I expect them to know all of my needs, desires, and preferences without having to uplevel my verbal communication skills and take response-ability asking for what I would like in life”
- Having thoughts of “I would ‘die’ to be with them”
- Over coddeling the child or kid
- Pathological co-dependency
- Consciously or unconsciously choosing not to see the limits or self sabotage of self sabotage in them
- Selfishly expecting the other to be everything that you want and not clearly seeing their Unique Self because you haven’t yet recognized and clarified your own Unique Self
- Only seeing one’s projections of the other rather than actually seeing how they actually are in both easeful and dis-stressful situations
- Lack of or lower stage of communication or interpersonal skills
- Unspoken expectations that self-sabotage to create the conditions for unnecessary conflict and fear
Pluto
Functional Pluto planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Give reminders of things one can achieve and become all the way in this lifetime
- Mutual transformation and personal evolution
- Rebirth from the tragic-life narrative into the post-tragic life narrative
- Energized by one another’s presence
- Transformed in functional and meaningful ways by their presence
- Able to let go of more self sabotage or negative aspects of ones past to be more aligned with one’s Unique Self in a post-tragic narrative in life
Dysfunctional Pluto planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Fighting with them more than one prefers
- Regressing into Seperate Self and possibility of constantly being hyper-fixated being reminded of or reminding them of their “shortcomings”
- Separate or False Self communication and behavior of control and manipulation through persuation with unconscious or conscious agendas
- Feeling dysfunctional anger or rage to the point of perhaps having thoughts of wanting to physically fight with them
Cosmic Rewards
Functional Cosmic Reward planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Being a continuous blessing in one another’s life
- The more you are together, the more there is appreciation of what you are to one another
- Gratitude for the many things that is given on so many levels and in so many ways
- being reminded consistently that the Universe is full of things to be grateful and happy about
- Sense of being destined to be with one another
Dysfunctional Cosmic Reward planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Trying to change and control one another because of a lack of trust in ones Unique Self
- Mis-perception of “I want them so much and I can’t seem to have them or make them ‘love’ me”
- Fighting and resenting the things that are said and done
- Lack of skillfullnes or complete unawareness of how anger functions leading to thinking of defeatism “I don’t know what to do”
Cosmic Lessons
Functional Cosmic Lessons planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Support in achieving our Unique Selve’s highest goals and ambitions
- Feeling of joy and confidence sensing there is guidance to one’s destiny all the way in this lifetime
- Support for highest potential and the clarity and direction on how to create one’s own Unique Way
- Mutual supportive suggestionsÂ
Dysfunctional Cosmic Lessons planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Resenting the other’s effort to help
- Mis-perception of being criticized or “finding fault” with the things one does or says
- Projecting unmet needs from childhood onto the other and telling one’s self a story “they don’t love or care for me because of the things I do and say”
- Abuse and cruelty can manifest in unique and various ways
- Telling oneself a story “nothing I do is ever enough for them”
Karmic Connection
Functional Karmic Connection planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Sense of a destined relationship or Unique Connection
- Sensing from the moment of the first interaction there would be deep connection
- Sense of feeling closer with one another than each might has ever with anyone in eachother’s lives
- Ability to make transparent feelings and past traumas and have needs for acceptance and to be known on a deeper level consistently met
- The natural part of the unconconditional love shared with one another is the ability to consciously share and receive with one another
Dysfunctional Karmic Connection planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Telling one’s self a story or having thoughts of “I have been drawn into a special kind of suffering that seems impossible to get out of”
- Fighting about trivial and insignificant things that have a simple and obvious solution to, yet choosing the power struggle due to being addicted to drama and cortisol
- Confusion asking one’s self, “why did I attract this kind of child into my life?” not yet aware of playing out unconscious unmet childhood needs not met from caretakers
- Thoughts of, “I’m tired of always giving to them, it is time they did something for me”
Power Connection
Functional Power Connection planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Considerable power-with generated when together, and this power, if channeled consciously, has the capacity to evolve the consciousness of those around you and create the factors in your life to leave the world a better place than you found it
- Having a similar or shared vision to have some kind of collective impact beyond just one’s family or nation
- Will stimulate both to achieve the highest potential
Dysfunctional Power Connection planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Power strugglesÂ
Birthday Match
Functional Birthday Match planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- A powerful connection and bond
- Connection in which you are a lot alike in many important ways
- Sense of closeness and experiencing deeper pleasure in being together
- There is a “rightness” about being together that can influence you to think the relationship or Unique Connection is going to last a long time with grace and ease
- Boost of self-confidence
- Proud and supportive of one another’s accomplishments
- Mutual support for one another’s careers and ambitions
- Supporting each others goals and dreams
Dysfunctional Birthday Match planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Hyper-individualisim not caring about the other person’s unique interests and goals
Birthday Share
Functional Birthday Share planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Sense of being strongly connected with one another
- Longevity in the connection
- Strong sense of unity between one another
- Having important things in common which leads to a perception of being very close with one another
- Being able to see one another’s Unique Self (in to me you see)
- Conscious, empathetic, emotionally intelligent communication, for general compatibility
- Supportive of each other in a real, authentic, and positive way
Dysfunctional Birthday Share planetary influence in Unique Connection:
- Unconscious or unaware currently of the levels and principals of pleasure, emotional intelligence, or clarity of Unique Self purpose
Bonding Motive - Intensity - Harmony
There are number values with more specific detail meanings for the overall bonding motive, intensity, and harmony between you and your child.
Bonding Motive Index Meaning
The bonding motive index meaning has a number value from -4 to 9
-4: You find it hard to be with your child on many levels. What can you do to cope with your interactions with them that could contribute more peace of mind?
-3: There are planetary factors and things about your child that push you away from them.
-2: You will find things about your child that depolarize your interaction with them.
-1: You have little bonding motive to your child or kid in some important areas.
0: You have little bonding motive to your child or kid.Â
1: You have some bonding motive to them yet not much.
2: You have some bonding motive and find child or kid interesting in some ways.
3: You are interested in them and who or how they are.
4: You find them very stimulating and interesting.
5: Your bonding motive is strong and enjoy being with them.
6: A very strong bonding motive and love to be with them.
7: You have a powerful bonding motive with your child or kid and the purpose of connection involves deeper fate.
8: You have an intense bonding motive with you child or kid and don’t prefer to stay away from them.
9: You have a major bonding motive to them and it is very magical and magnetic.
Intensity Index Meaning
The intensity index meaning has a number value from 0 to 9
0: This relationship runs very smoothly without major challenges or problems.
1: This is mostly a calm relationship, not overly dramatic or problematic.
2: This relationship is mildly intense with few challenges or problems as a whole.
3: This relationship has some intensity to it and can be challenging at times.
4: This relationship can be very intense and challenging sometimes, and with awareness from both people, there is a way to consciously grow in it.
5: This person challenges you in many ways and with more awareness and up-leveled communication skills, you have the possibility to learn from this relationship.
6: This relationship is very intense and with awareness could teach you a lot about yourself and life.
7: This relationship is a real test of inner strength and the ability to learn about yourself in dis-stressful situations and in general.
8: This relationship is an intense learning experience for you and could be very difficult.
9: This is one of the most intense and challenging people you have ever interacted with, do you really want to be around them?
Compatibility Index Meaning
The intensity index meaning has a number value from -9 to 9
-9: This is an extremely difficult relationship for you, only saints would pursue it.
-8: You may want to seriously question yourself about why you are actually interacting with this person.
-7: You two are not compatible at all, why are you even together? You must want to really learn something and have some challenge in your life right now.
-6: This interaction is not a happy, fun experience, there is much for you to learn.
-5: This interaction will have many problems for you to overcome, ask yourself and be honest, “is it really worth it?”.
-4: The two of you do not have similar preferences nor shared long term vision, it will be challenging for the both of you.
-3: There are times where you might perceive or think you’re being judged or criticized, or that it is actually happening. Fortunately, depending on your ability to take response ability for your own thinking and emotional wake, it doesn’t need to happen if you don’t want it to.
-2: Though you don’t always get along, there are some reasons and results of being together in this interaction.
-1: Overall, the two of you are okay. Depending on of your levels of development and awareness, some things will be easy going and other things could be challenging.
0: You have things in common with them and that’s supportive for a foundation in what you are intending or preferring to create with them.
1: You two are compatible and it shows, you enjoy being together.
2: You two have more than a little in common and enjoy being together.
3: You two have reasons for being together and have enough compatibility to be married or in a unique bond the way you prefer.
4: You are very compatible and could be married or have a unique ceremony how you prefer.
5: The two of you are very close and get along very well, get clear on what the shared vision is you both prefer: is it marriage? children? something else that is unique to the both of you?
6: With both people awakened and at a higher stage of development and communication skills, this is a very mutually supportive relationship for you and the one that could have longevity with deeper awareness and a mutual clarified vision.
7: You two are very compatible and can move through things with grace and ease being together and when apart.
8: You could choose to be supportive, meaningful friends for life or married for 40 years or more, or have a unique bond in the ways you both prefer, the choicefullness is there and it’s up to both of you.
9: This is a truly deeper, meaningful, soulful, one-of-a-kind intimate communion where you could be together or married for a lifetime, yet reflect and really see, “is there a lot of attraction here?”
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